Everything I have to say bout the DR - April 2010

[rivardco]

I have posted here at length on Colombia last year. I had also spent much time in the DR over the past 3 years. I have just returned from a 1.5 month trip covering the entire island - and the benefit of two recent relationships with Eastern European women and living in Cali for 8 months last year. The bottom line = the Dominican Republic is a fun place, but the odds are VERY remote on finding a serious woman who is your equal.

This comment covers all geographies - I have been to them all (even the little mountain towns that NEVER see visitors). This comment covers all classes. Alas, this comment is only a generalization; so, as always exceptions can apply.

The women sell their "services" like the street vendors sell their sunglasses. Even when the meetings are not overly commercial, there is certainly a have / have not feeling in the air. It is just not fair. There is not enough monetary, and social, and emotional freedom for a women to enter into a relationship consensually - or at least not with the same liberties that consent implies in the USA. I feel a little guilty in writing this - but the people are primitive. I do not know how a man can take a woman out of those environments and mix that person into a modern life.

So, I hope I have succeeded in drawing a very cautionary line. But, there are beautiful women that will treat almost anybody like gold in return for love, affection, and physical support.

The sex tourism scene has cut a deep ditch. There are stereotypes at work before you open your mouth. Interestingly, the sex tourism industry is two sided. I saw a ton of hot young European girls that were looking for their vacation Tarzan - they are not hard to find. I say older, unattractive women too - they found the same men willing and able. There is virtually no deliberation. Coin operated machines they are!

But, if you are serious and can not be dissuaded ... there is a Catholic University in Santiago. That is where I found the best pool of good prospects.

Now, if you are just an adventurer, just through the dart at the map - you will find a beautiful country and beautiful people and tons of Presidente (the national beer that is delicious) everywhere. If you have any specific questions, just give me a PM and I will try to point you in the right direction.

For me, the target seems more and more obvious - skinny, lighter skinned, and more refined women, close to the USA = Medellin. That will be my next trip. August and September.

Best of luck to you ....

[Cubafro]

Hola R,
Basically you said with nicer words what I said back then about DR..I am glad to see that I am not the only one who observed that "services sell" from women
Anyway good to have the forum back on

Cubafro

[Kalel21]

The best Looking and best behaved women aren't so much in santiago but the campos surronding it. you know what i mean, right? Where the still push cattle. Think La Vega, San francisico de Matas, And the core Cibao Region. Avoid Boca Chica, Sousa and POP. Don't even admit to a decent girl that you hang out here. It will severely ruin your chances. TRUST ME. I have seen gringos do it.

[Kalel21]

Originally Posted by rivardco

But, if you are serious and can not be dissuaded ... there is a Catholic University in Santiago. That is where I found the best pool of good prospects.

You would be referring to PUCMM ( or Poo Kah Mai Mai as it is pronounced in the DR).

Yes there is lots of talent and yes they are beautiful but some bad ones there as well. some can be demanding. You'd be better off hanging out at a few classy bars and meet them from there. stay away from car washes.