Women of Panama & other countries?

[guinness]

Hello guys, I have been looking around on these boards for a while now and I'm ready to get some questions and observations answered. I have dated quite a few women of all kinds. some Black,some White,mostly Hispanic. I have to say that the Latinas for the most part put the rest to shame. As of recently I dated 2 women from Panama. The first was a little older,44, I am late 30's. I have to say that woman was GOLD. She had all the right qualities I look for. loving,caring,pretty,submissive,a little chunky,round booty and large breasts.She is well educated and hard working, I got her fresh from Panama. She had only been in the states 1 month with her 2 kids. Adult daughter and 15yr old son. MAN !! That woman was always on her job,cooking,cleaning,SEX. I screwed it up, I had too many women at the time and I wasn't ready for here. The second one I met online, what a difference. She has been in the states since she was a child. She has the same physical qualities. She is 32,acts nothing like the first,and does not possess the same domestic skills, expects me to pay for everything and does nothing! A TRUE Where do I find ones like the first??

[DennisLevy]

But, are we ready to answer your qestions and observations?

1. Women are not "gotten fresh from Panama", they are human beings, not fish.
2. Since the first relationship lasted only a month and you admitted that you screwed up, you neglected to add two qualities that the first panamaniana probably has; intelligence and perception.

I suggest you do an extended and serious attitude check, before you go "shopping for a round booty and large breasts"

dennislevy

[guinness]

Originally Posted by DennisLevy

But, are we ready to answer your qestions and observations?

1. Women are not "gotten fresh from Panama", they are human beings, not fish.
2. Since the first relationship lasted only a month and you admitted that you screwed up, you neglected to add two qualities that the first panamaniana probably has; intelligence and perception.

I suggest you do an extended and serious attitude check, before you go "shopping for a round booty and large breasts"

dennislevy

Listen, I was not trying to disrespect women, I know they are not fish. Secondly, The lady and I are still very good friends and the relationship lasted 6 months. The comment about being fresh from Panama actually came from her,she is very proud to be a Panamanian and she is proud to be a strong woman. Last but not least maybe you should check your own attitude and not be so judgemental.

[Tinto]

Originally Posted by guinness

The first...

was a little older,44, I am late 30's...

a little chunky...

with her 2 kids...

Where do I find ones like the first??

Huh? Not sure if you are being serious but,

there are TONS of Latinas that are older than you with children in South America that would love you to death.

Why settle for an older chunky woman with kids?

[guinness]

Originally Posted by Tinto

Huh? Not sure if you are being serious but,

there are TONS of Latinas that are older than you with children in South America that would love you to death.

Why settle for an older chunky woman with kids?

Yeah, I hear what your saying. I think its hard to find the ones that have their sh*t together emotionally.Things don't always look as good on the inside as the out!!

[AltoHombre]

Dude, you know I have to agree that the tone of your first posting was a bit condescending. You really made her sound like a domestic servant with benefits on the side, Maid to Order.

I think you have to take care in how you describe the women you care about in your life, because, to me, and I would bet a few others, you came across as a typical ugly american. All attitude and not the good kind.

No offense meant, I don't know you from atom, but your presentation came across badly to me.

And Tinto, why settle... Man, how ugly is that. A relationship is about two people who connect at some level. Sure an older woman with adult children can carry baggage, but so can anyone. I doubt given the way Guiness was talking he felt he was settling. Of course maybe I'm wrong on that point. In my thirties I dated a woman who was 11 years older than I. She was no model, but then again neither am I. She was a woman who was beautiful, but beautiful because she has pretty had a great heart and was a wonderful companion and lover. A lot of other men, might have looked past her, because she didn't have a smokin hot body. My desire for her had everything to do with her body and her mind and the longer we were together, the more I appreciated her for all the things that weren't prefect.

She had reaced a point where she didn't want kids and that was impotant to me, or I would still probably be with her. She was an amazing woman.

[Tinto]

Originally Posted by AltoHombre

And Tinto, why settle... Man, how ugly is that. A relationship is about two people who connect at some level. Sure an older woman with adult children can carry baggage, but so can anyone. I doubt given the way Guiness was talking he felt he was settling. Of course maybe I'm wrong on that point. In my thirties I dated a woman who was 11 years older than I. She was no model, but then again neither am I. She was a woman who was beautiful, but beautiful because she has pretty had a great heart and was a wonderful companion and lover. A lot of other men, might have looked past her, because she didn't have a smokin hot body. My desire for her had everything to do with her body and her mind and the longer we were together, the more I appreciated her for all the things that weren't prefect.

She had reaced a point where she didn't want kids and that was impotant to me, or I would still probably be with her. She was an amazing woman.

Hi(gh) Man,

My comments to Guinness were very tongue in cheek mostly because I wasn't sure if he was pulling our leg or not. Do I believe that an older woman could make a great life companion? Absolutely! However...

I doubt if Guinness has traveled much to SA because if he had he would not have made some of the comments that he did. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder but our society has gone down the crapper in regards to "chunky".

Most single AM that look in our country for a relationship do settle for a distant second when comparing to the many feminine and beautiful women down south. They think they have something to brag about when they are "fortunate" enough to have a relationship with an "older, chunky woman with kids". Not to offend anyone but no thank you.

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versus

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[guinness]

Originally Posted by AltoHombre

Dude, you know I have to agree that the tone of your first posting was a bit condescending. You really made her sound like a domestic servant with benefits on the side, Maid to Order.

I think you have to take care in how you describe the women you care about in your life, because, to me, and I would bet a few others, you came across as a typical ugly american. All attitude and not the good kind.

No offense meant, I don't know you from atom, but your presentation came across badly to me.

And Tinto, why settle... Man, how ugly is that. A relationship is about two people who connect at some level. Sure an older woman with adult children can carry baggage, but so can anyone. I doubt given the way Guiness was talking he felt he was settling. Of course maybe I'm wrong on that point. In my thirties I dated a woman who was 11 years older than I. She was no model, but then again neither am I. She was a woman who was beautiful, but beautiful because she has pretty had a great heart and was a wonderful companion and lover. A lot of other men, might have looked past her, because she didn't have a smokin hot body. My desire for her had everything to do with her body and her mind and the longer we were together, the more I appreciated her for all the things that weren't prefect.

She had reaced a point where she didn't want kids and that was impotant to me, or I would still probably be with her. She was an amazing woman.

Yes, in retrospect it was condescending and I apologize for that.I still care about the woman. I didn't mean to come across as arrogant. She taught me alot in the short time we had together and she set a standard. She knew what she wanted, I simply wasn't ready. she still calls me to remind me of that.

[AltoHombre]

Trust a woman to always take the opportunity to remind you what a big mistake you made. (SNAP!!)


Tony

[guinness]

Originally Posted by Tinto

Hi(gh) Man,


I doubt if Guinness has traveled much to SA because if he had he would not have made some of the comments that he did.

Like what in particular?